“Everybody would reap the seed they sew accordingly” – Ogudu, Wizkid’s 1st Baby-mama Shares Her Experience
Using words like ‘deadbeat’, ‘absentee’ and ‘failure’, Shola Ogudu, mother of Wizkid’s first son, has made allegations of neglect against the superstar singer.
She described the singer as “wicked, heartless, cold-hearted,” and alleged that he denied his child, Boluwatife, until a DNA proved he was the father.
Ogudu said she thought Wizkid’s behaviour towards her and her son would change after the DNA result came out, but noted that it never did.
She said at some point when things were hard, she reached out to Wizkid for help but he said, “you should have thought about all of that before having the child”.
Ogudu also said it was always difficult to get the singer to pay Boluwatife’s school fees and send money for his upkeep.
She said the Afrobeats star is the “perfect example of all that I never want my son to be.”
“I guess It is time to stand up for myself and clear my name,” she wrote in the opening line of the 10-page post.
“For 7 solid years Ayodeji, I was so concerned about anything tarnishing your image or ruining your career cos I knew how much you wanted this. I was very aware how much work you put into achieving your dreams and finally it was all coming to you.”
Ogudu described him as a “social media daddy” who feigns to care for his child.
She wrote: “Paying your child’s school fees was a task… if there’s no begging and explanations involved for no reason then we are not ready.
“You only cared for yourself and how the public perceived you. You tattoo’s his name so the world can see you as a loving daddy.
Even the Starboy chain and the other jewelry you claimed you got for him, did you or did you not collect it back?”
She said the ‘Come Closer’ singer has never been present for any important event in his first son’s life.
“I can count the amount of times you’ve ever seen your son in 7 years,” she wrote.
“All I ever asked of you was to co-parent in one accord, no more no less.
“Asides from your son’s name and age, mention one thing you know about him?. You have never been present for not even one of Tife’s birthdays.
“Your failure as a father didn’t start now. Started from the day you denied beIng the father of this kid, knowing the truth.”
“So many times, I have questioned how a normal human can decide to switch into a complete demon even towards his own child and I have never been able to come up with an answer.”
Ogudu also shared several screenshots of her conversations with Wizkid on Instagram.